What is consistency?
Sure, consistency is important for children, but what does consistency mean? Consistency means that rules and expectations remain the same. This helps create a predictable environment for children. It also alleviates any what could happen stress, which helps children better understand how to be accountable for their actions.
Why is consistency important?
- Consistency provides children with a sense of security. Through this security, children will learn that they can rely on their parents to make sure their needs will be met.
- A daily routine will help provide a calm, predictable home life. Examples: Bed times, meal schedules and school schedules.
- Parents that are consistent with their children tend to experience fewer anxious moments.
- Consistency helps children develop responsibility. When they understand what their parents expect from them, children can apply these expectations to make better decisions.
- No means no. This mentality leads to children that are less likely to push boundaries or manipulate situations.
By providing a consistent environment for your kids it will help lead to a decrease in confusion, low self-esteem, anxiety and many other negative and often difficult coping mechanisms.
What are your thoughts on a 3 year old being registered in 2 different day cares which he attends bi weekly when with either parent?
Hi MelC,
That’s a great question! Day care centers can be tough, especially when your child is going to more than one. However, I think that if there is a similar set of standards/expectations between households, your child will be able to benefit from your consistency and excel and apply these behaviors/expectations while at day care. It might take time for your child to make the adjustment, but as long as you remain committed to these set standards, then you should start seeing your child’s behaviors start to change. I hope this helps!